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How much did you cry? And do you think they cried over you?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 667425" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa I will join Cedar and light a candle for your mother, a special one. We light candles all the time. I will explain to my husband who it is for. Ours are all scented. Do you think she'd have liked lavender? It is for her and for you, Copa. She was not t he monster Cedar's mom and my mother are/were. I also think your sister was very influential in your relationship. Beware of her.</p><p></p><p>You have a great gift, Copa. Your mother loved you. She really did. She had problems but that doesn't mean she didn't love you. You are blessed. As you know, not every mother loves her child.</p><p></p><p>Copa, I think of your mother a bit like my father. He is not a perfect person. Often he has lost his temper with all of us and when he does, he says mean things that I doubt he remembers or really means. He may mean it at the moment, but not viciously like my mother did as my mother would repeat the same criticisms and out and out cruelty over and over again, but Dad does not. I love my Dad because he loves me. I love him with all my heart. I would love anyone who loves me. It isn't hard to get my heart. He refuses REFUSES to let sister influence him. She says "he doesn't get it." Oh, yeah, he gets it. He isn't goi9ng to cut out his daughter because you are unhappy that I did some Facebook stuff to you, biotch. So Copa, I think we are talking about flawed people who love us anyway and whom we love because of that. It is a treasure to be loved. You and I and Cedar do not take love for granted.</p><p></p><p>Copa, anniversaries of bad things can set us back. I think you will feel better soon. Sending healing vibes.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 667425, member: 1550"] Copa I will join Cedar and light a candle for your mother, a special one. We light candles all the time. I will explain to my husband who it is for. Ours are all scented. Do you think she'd have liked lavender? It is for her and for you, Copa. She was not t he monster Cedar's mom and my mother are/were. I also think your sister was very influential in your relationship. Beware of her. You have a great gift, Copa. Your mother loved you. She really did. She had problems but that doesn't mean she didn't love you. You are blessed. As you know, not every mother loves her child. Copa, I think of your mother a bit like my father. He is not a perfect person. Often he has lost his temper with all of us and when he does, he says mean things that I doubt he remembers or really means. He may mean it at the moment, but not viciously like my mother did as my mother would repeat the same criticisms and out and out cruelty over and over again, but Dad does not. I love my Dad because he loves me. I love him with all my heart. I would love anyone who loves me. It isn't hard to get my heart. He refuses REFUSES to let sister influence him. She says "he doesn't get it." Oh, yeah, he gets it. He isn't goi9ng to cut out his daughter because you are unhappy that I did some Facebook stuff to you, biotch. So Copa, I think we are talking about flawed people who love us anyway and whom we love because of that. It is a treasure to be loved. You and I and Cedar do not take love for granted. Copa, anniversaries of bad things can set us back. I think you will feel better soon. Sending healing vibes. [/QUOTE]
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