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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 21895" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>Amy, I think what you did was right on. You don't want to "police" your husband. There has to be trust but I not going to be the last one to know if something is going on.</p><p>Having friends of the opposite sex is the norm. Calling at 10PM at night is inappropriate and throws up red flags all over the place. </p><p>It's much more suspicious because she is single. She should know it is inappropriate and should go the extra mile to put your mind at ease by not exhibiting provacative behaviors. </p><p></p><p>I'm glad husband is on board with you and has talked to you about it. He is the one who made the committment not her. It's his job to reassure you by his behavior that there is no reason for concern. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Something similar happened about 23yrs ago with husband. His co worker(actually his supervisor) was going through a divorce. She would sit and talk to husband and started calling the house. I was not a happy girl. :nonono: husband is usually oblivious but he understood my concern and how it would appear to co workers as well as me. He nipped it in the bud.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 21895, member: 3"] Amy, I think what you did was right on. You don't want to "police" your husband. There has to be trust but I not going to be the last one to know if something is going on. Having friends of the opposite sex is the norm. Calling at 10PM at night is inappropriate and throws up red flags all over the place. It's much more suspicious because she is single. She should know it is inappropriate and should go the extra mile to put your mind at ease by not exhibiting provacative behaviors. I'm glad husband is on board with you and has talked to you about it. He is the one who made the committment not her. It's his job to reassure you by his behavior that there is no reason for concern. Something similar happened about 23yrs ago with husband. His co worker(actually his supervisor) was going through a divorce. She would sit and talk to husband and started calling the house. I was not a happy girl. [img]:nonono:[/img] husband is usually oblivious but he understood my concern and how it would appear to co workers as well as me. He nipped it in the bud. [/QUOTE]
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