There hasn't been any fighting in two weeks...not like before. difficult child is angry with me and I walk away. Broken hearted. Yesterday I picked him up from school and asked him to work out with me. He complained, didn't want to, back hurt...but said he would because he didn't want me to be mad. Got to the Health club and there were about 20 kids/teachers from his school. One boy called him over and asked if he was going to play...They play dodgeball every Thursday. difficult child DID. I worked out. We butt heads on ALOT of issues. When we left the club, he said he isn't going to work out everyday because he just isn't taking the time. I made an uncalled for comment I guess about the computer game. He told me he QUIT. Because he doesn't want me mad. He has a therapist appointment after school today. He doesn't want to go. It has been weekly now for a few weeks, and have two more weekly appts. for him set up. He asked me if he has to do this every week. I have no idea. How often do the kids go? I don't want him to hate going. It is about 20 miles away. What do I expect now? I don't want to have to fight with him to go. by the way...with no computer last night, we played cards, shutbox, arm wrestled, (I won) laughed. Haven't done that in a long time. He was trying.