It is hard to be a mother in law. I want to be a good one and not interfere but I also want to be included in things my daughter and husband do. Tonight they went over to his mothers house. She and I get along well and she invited me and husband over to carve pumpkins, eat and look at wedding and honeymoon pics. It was a lot of fun. I just want it to continue. His mother is a lot more entertaining and cooking person than I am. What can I do to help organize a get together? I dont want to over step my bounds.