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How to believe and not be fooled?
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<blockquote data-quote="Terryforvols" data-source="post: 625082" data-attributes="member: 2127"><p>I agree with all of you. </p><p></p><p>I had hoped when she had children she would wake up. She did for awhile, but relapsed. She had never experienced jail at that time, so who knows if she had experienced that early on would it have made a difference.</p><p></p><p>When she went through her 1st long term rehab in TX, she decided not to move back here to TN bc most of her friends were drug users. Good call at that time, but eventually she drifted back to that crowd in TX. </p><p></p><p>One thing abt difficult children is that they aim low. They pick people who basically expect nothing of them, bc they expect nothing of themselves. If difficult child is not seeing it now, Im not sure she ever will. No visitors bc all your so called "friends" are to busy drugging and you are not valuable anymore. </p><p></p><p>I think each difficult child will make it their own way, IF/WHEN they ever decide. I wish there was a one size fits all solution for them and us, but there is not. I am slowly learning to be happy for me and husband daily-good days and bad days with that!</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Terryforvols, post: 625082, member: 2127"] I agree with all of you. I had hoped when she had children she would wake up. She did for awhile, but relapsed. She had never experienced jail at that time, so who knows if she had experienced that early on would it have made a difference. When she went through her 1st long term rehab in TX, she decided not to move back here to TN bc most of her friends were drug users. Good call at that time, but eventually she drifted back to that crowd in TX. One thing abt difficult children is that they aim low. They pick people who basically expect nothing of them, bc they expect nothing of themselves. If difficult child is not seeing it now, Im not sure she ever will. No visitors bc all your so called "friends" are to busy drugging and you are not valuable anymore. I think each difficult child will make it their own way, IF/WHEN they ever decide. I wish there was a one size fits all solution for them and us, but there is not. I am slowly learning to be happy for me and husband daily-good days and bad days with that! Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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