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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 703849" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>You forgive because that keeps bitterness from eating YOU up and then you move on. You love him from a distance, and you NEVER let him on or around anything you cannot afford to lose again. You don't trust him because quite simply, you cannot trust him. </p><p></p><p>If you truly feel you want to see him, do it in public and keep it surface. Don't discuss anything deep or meaningful. If he wants to come to your home, tell him no. Make sure your locks are all changed and keep everything locked up tight. If he just shows up, tell him to leave and call the police if he won't leave. Do NOT open the door to him. If he screams through the door at you, call the cops to report a trespasser and tell them you feel you are in danger. If he is manic, you likely are. If he threatens suicide if you won't open the door, tell that to 911 and make sure they transport him for his own safety. </p><p></p><p>I am very sorry for this, but unless and until he accepts proper help, and sticks with it, pays you back AND works to earn your trust, you just cannot trust him. Any relationship needs to be away from anything you want to keep.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 703849, member: 1233"] You forgive because that keeps bitterness from eating YOU up and then you move on. You love him from a distance, and you NEVER let him on or around anything you cannot afford to lose again. You don't trust him because quite simply, you cannot trust him. If you truly feel you want to see him, do it in public and keep it surface. Don't discuss anything deep or meaningful. If he wants to come to your home, tell him no. Make sure your locks are all changed and keep everything locked up tight. If he just shows up, tell him to leave and call the police if he won't leave. Do NOT open the door to him. If he screams through the door at you, call the cops to report a trespasser and tell them you feel you are in danger. If he is manic, you likely are. If he threatens suicide if you won't open the door, tell that to 911 and make sure they transport him for his own safety. I am very sorry for this, but unless and until he accepts proper help, and sticks with it, pays you back AND works to earn your trust, you just cannot trust him. Any relationship needs to be away from anything you want to keep. [/QUOTE]
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