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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 676770" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>Lil. I've been here SO MANY TIMES. The end-of-the-world calls. The pouring of all the angst down the phone line on to me. The scared way of letting myself think that everything's going well, he's happy, she's happy, they've got it sorted, under control, peace, nothing to worry about. Then BAM, it's all over, he's crying, she's angry, he's got nowhere to go.. and I'm left shaking.</p><p></p><p>Then... 2 days later, 2 days of sleepless nights and that sick feeling in my stomach and the tentative plans I've been making in my head to sort it all out for him, because no matter how detached I am when he calls and no matter how detached I am in my actions, MY HEAD DOESN'T GET IT. It carries on regardless. and then the next call comes, or the next text, and he's FINE. Because yes, Lil, for all you know they've made up and are as happy as clams right now. I hate this too. Reading about the same thing happening again and again all over the world. Why can't we just shut it all down, all the crap. Why can't they just leave us alone. Why can't they just call to say "hey mum".... and NOTHING ELSE... I don't know what to tell you ... you know it anyway.</p><p></p><p>Get angry.</p><p></p><p>Find the strength.</p><p></p><p>and when they keep coming to you for advice? <em> Think twice before saying nothing.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 676770, member: 17650"] Lil. I've been here SO MANY TIMES. The end-of-the-world calls. The pouring of all the angst down the phone line on to me. The scared way of letting myself think that everything's going well, he's happy, she's happy, they've got it sorted, under control, peace, nothing to worry about. Then BAM, it's all over, he's crying, she's angry, he's got nowhere to go.. and I'm left shaking. Then... 2 days later, 2 days of sleepless nights and that sick feeling in my stomach and the tentative plans I've been making in my head to sort it all out for him, because no matter how detached I am when he calls and no matter how detached I am in my actions, MY HEAD DOESN'T GET IT. It carries on regardless. and then the next call comes, or the next text, and he's FINE. Because yes, Lil, for all you know they've made up and are as happy as clams right now. I hate this too. Reading about the same thing happening again and again all over the world. Why can't we just shut it all down, all the crap. Why can't they just leave us alone. Why can't they just call to say "hey mum".... and NOTHING ELSE... I don't know what to tell you ... you know it anyway. Get angry. Find the strength. and when they keep coming to you for advice? [I] Think twice before saying nothing.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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