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How to Know if you Are/Were the Scapegoat and Stopping It
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 655572" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Sometimes Cyber Mom, I really think you live with me!!! ( or in my mind ) -Scent and a few others as well!</p><p></p><p>All of that makes sense, but for me growing up I was really overall a happy child, no issues, we all got along normally. I was lucky, still feel that overall my younger childhood was good. The good memories I have I will keep, even though now that Im older, I see a difference. As I mentioned before, I had my life planned out to a tee. I truly felt bad when any family was sad or had a disagreement, I wanted everyone happy and getting along, spending time together. ( not trained to do that, just who I was, id see at least one good thing in a person who was bad, even if it was only they dressed nice, nice hair, drove good etc) I dont remember when I started apologizing for everything, even stuff I didnt do. See, for me, when I had trouble in school because of a teacher is when it got bad with grandpa, as a teen I saw the real him. His way no way otherwise. Well, anyways, I think whats hard too is when you meet a friend or an ex, great for years and all of sudden that goes downhill, thats hard too. But yes, I get blamed for most, even when I dont do it, the blame will even all of sudden go away and they say how much I go through I dont deserve this, they are two faced! Which is it? </p><p></p><p>Thank you!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 655572, member: 18100"] Sometimes Cyber Mom, I really think you live with me!!! ( or in my mind ) -Scent and a few others as well! All of that makes sense, but for me growing up I was really overall a happy child, no issues, we all got along normally. I was lucky, still feel that overall my younger childhood was good. The good memories I have I will keep, even though now that Im older, I see a difference. As I mentioned before, I had my life planned out to a tee. I truly felt bad when any family was sad or had a disagreement, I wanted everyone happy and getting along, spending time together. ( not trained to do that, just who I was, id see at least one good thing in a person who was bad, even if it was only they dressed nice, nice hair, drove good etc) I dont remember when I started apologizing for everything, even stuff I didnt do. See, for me, when I had trouble in school because of a teacher is when it got bad with grandpa, as a teen I saw the real him. His way no way otherwise. Well, anyways, I think whats hard too is when you meet a friend or an ex, great for years and all of sudden that goes downhill, thats hard too. But yes, I get blamed for most, even when I dont do it, the blame will even all of sudden go away and they say how much I go through I dont deserve this, they are two faced! Which is it? Thank you!!! [/QUOTE]
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