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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 72730" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>hi Penta as well, glad to see you around.</p><p></p><p>I have to say there is more to detaching than meets the eye... and more ways to detach depending on what is needed.</p><p></p><p>I dont worry about ant sleeping or eating or being lonely. I know he can survive that. I dont give him money or suggestions because that is a waste.</p><p>I dont let him live here thinking he will be cold or hungry anymore. I know he can find a way. </p><p></p><p>I do have to say though when impending doom is lurking over ant like this prison thing once more...I did not sleep a few nights til I finally slept from exhaustion. I am tossing and turning. we are not robots who can shut off our thoughts. our minds have to mull things over a few million times to get us more used to the ideas. at some point we come to acceptance of the idea. we release the pain, we get more numb.</p><p></p><p>I love ant but I cannot let myself think about him too much. it was a failed project, a reminder of my own limits, a not-trusting him to be able to care for himself sort of thing if I was not there. now I get frazzled only at him for constantly making his own life harder. but I know it is not my fault.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 72730, member: 97"] hi Penta as well, glad to see you around. I have to say there is more to detaching than meets the eye... and more ways to detach depending on what is needed. I dont worry about ant sleeping or eating or being lonely. I know he can survive that. I dont give him money or suggestions because that is a waste. I dont let him live here thinking he will be cold or hungry anymore. I know he can find a way. I do have to say though when impending doom is lurking over ant like this prison thing once more...I did not sleep a few nights til I finally slept from exhaustion. I am tossing and turning. we are not robots who can shut off our thoughts. our minds have to mull things over a few million times to get us more used to the ideas. at some point we come to acceptance of the idea. we release the pain, we get more numb. I love ant but I cannot let myself think about him too much. it was a failed project, a reminder of my own limits, a not-trusting him to be able to care for himself sort of thing if I was not there. now I get frazzled only at him for constantly making his own life harder. but I know it is not my fault. [/QUOTE]
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