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How to truly go no contact if you sadly must
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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 744843" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>My kids want this from their father so badly. More than anything. And i really don’t think it will ever happen. It hurts my heart to see how badly they want it. He was also physically abusive, to all of us. I’ve told all of mine they can make their own decisions about how much and what kind of contact to have, or if they want contact at all. I support whatever they decide. E and C have gone completely non-contact and I think it will be permanent. He wasn’t invited to the wedding. </p><p></p><p>In my opinion, children don’t owe abusive parents anything, even in their old age. I think it’s very generous that you manintain once a year contact and check in to see if he needs anything. I don’t wish my ex ill, but he has done nothing to take care of his health or finances, has never admitted wrong doing or apologized in any way, and put zero effort into repairing or maintaining relationships with his kids. Sometimes you reap what you sow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 744843, member: 23349"] My kids want this from their father so badly. More than anything. And i really don’t think it will ever happen. It hurts my heart to see how badly they want it. He was also physically abusive, to all of us. I’ve told all of mine they can make their own decisions about how much and what kind of contact to have, or if they want contact at all. I support whatever they decide. E and C have gone completely non-contact and I think it will be permanent. He wasn’t invited to the wedding. In my opinion, children don’t owe abusive parents anything, even in their old age. I think it’s very generous that you manintain once a year contact and check in to see if he needs anything. I don’t wish my ex ill, but he has done nothing to take care of his health or finances, has never admitted wrong doing or apologized in any way, and put zero effort into repairing or maintaining relationships with his kids. Sometimes you reap what you sow. [/QUOTE]
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