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<blockquote data-quote="mamato3" data-source="post: 714381" data-attributes="member: 22015"><p>Difficult child, daughter, and I are on a visit to see my brother. Difficult Child is at brother's house and just had a fight with ex-girlfriend. Here is the text exchange between us. Can anyone please share insight as to how I should and tell me what I have said wrong in the text exchange? </p><p></p><p>Me: Why is morgan texting me? Asking me to tell you to leave her alone? </p><p></p><p>I am not interested in dealing with your drama any longer. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: Then @@@ don't. Don't @@@ worry about it. Don't worry about @@@. Cancel my appointment Monday. I'm @@@ done.</p><p></p><p>Me: Ok. Tell (brother) please. You will not have a ride home or place to live. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: He's not here. I don't give a @@@ anymore. (Girlfriend) and I just got into a fight. A @@@ fight. Everyone fights. And now you say you don't want to deal with me anymore. Good. </p><p></p><p>Me: You are now 18 and a legal adult. I do not have to deal with your disrespect and I will not. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: K</p><p></p><p>Me: I don't want to deal with your drama. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: K</p><p></p><p>Me:I will pay for a bus ticket for you to get back to (home state)since it's not fair for (brother) to have to deal with you. Please let me know if you will use the ticket or not. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: You don't love me. (Girlfriend) doesn't love me. No one does. So I don't honestly care anymore. </p><p></p><p>Me: I do love you. More than anything. But I also do not deserve to be treated the way you treat me. Mental illness or not. </p><p></p><p>Please let me know how you will be getting home since I cannot ride home with you or leave you with (brother). </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child: I don't know how I'm getting home. And frankly I don't give a <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />. For all I care, I'll be going home in a <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing body bag. </p><p></p><p>Me: I am willing to help you get home and to get help. It's up to you to accept the help. I will no longer take your abuse. I love you and I know that you will figure this out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mamato3, post: 714381, member: 22015"] Difficult child, daughter, and I are on a visit to see my brother. Difficult Child is at brother's house and just had a fight with ex-girlfriend. Here is the text exchange between us. Can anyone please share insight as to how I should and tell me what I have said wrong in the text exchange? Me: Why is morgan texting me? Asking me to tell you to leave her alone? I am not interested in dealing with your drama any longer. Difficult Child: Then @@@ don't. Don't @@@ worry about it. Don't worry about @@@. Cancel my appointment Monday. I'm @@@ done. Me: Ok. Tell (brother) please. You will not have a ride home or place to live. Difficult Child: He's not here. I don't give a @@@ anymore. (Girlfriend) and I just got into a fight. A @@@ fight. Everyone fights. And now you say you don't want to deal with me anymore. Good. Me: You are now 18 and a legal adult. I do not have to deal with your disrespect and I will not. Difficult Child: K Me: I don't want to deal with your drama. Difficult Child: K Me:I will pay for a bus ticket for you to get back to (home state)since it's not fair for (brother) to have to deal with you. Please let me know if you will use the ticket or not. Difficult Child: You don't love me. (Girlfriend) doesn't love me. No one does. So I don't honestly care anymore. Me: I do love you. More than anything. But I also do not deserve to be treated the way you treat me. Mental illness or not. Please let me know how you will be getting home since I cannot ride home with you or leave you with (brother). Difficult Child: I don't know how I'm getting home. And frankly I don't give a :censored2:. For all I care, I'll be going home in a :censored2:ing body bag. Me: I am willing to help you get home and to get help. It's up to you to accept the help. I will no longer take your abuse. I love you and I know that you will figure this out. [/QUOTE]
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