These are the days that make you shake your head in disbelief. Hubs went to get her situated, and she said that the feds are patrolling the place, and she needs to dip.(cool lingo for leave). So hubs asks where she's dipping to, and she tells him norcal she has 14$. She has court coming in a few days for theft..He came home very upset, saying he can't deal with her. I lovingly explained about addiction and detachment. He wants to go talk to a counselor. I have a feeling it's not over by a long shot, but he got a good glimpse of reality today.