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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 649215" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>One day, you are going to look at where your son is at, wherever he lands, and shake your head and regret that you often put your grandfather's needs ahead of him. He shouldn't have to deal with grandpa, Dad, Sis or the whole crew. He is taking a back seat to a man who should be in assisted living and will not live long. But your son has his whole life ahead of him and it's not looking good so far. Your kids need all your attention or you are going to be very regretful one day.</p><p></p><p>Please get your son to a neuropsychologist. Not a neurologist...that won't help. Your pediatrician can't help. Get him to a neruopsych. Get him there before he gets a diagnosis of Conduct Disorder which is not treatable and often leads to adult antisocial personality disorder, criminality and prison. Let people without kids fret over your older relatives. Your kids are not doing well and they can't give up so much time of yours to your other family members. They need a well rested, healthy mother. Do you see why this is? Do you see that your priority is grandpa? The kids should never take a back seat to anyone. They are minor children in danger of having bad lives. Do you understand? I'm not trying to be mean, but it does get frustrating. Nothing changes. It should. You are too good a person for this. And your kids need you.</p><p></p><p>The older and abusive members of your family are holding you back from having the time or energy to focus your full attention on your kids...and your own needs. You want to be able to say, no matter what happens with your kids when they grow up, "I did everything I could for them" not that "Well, I was too busy worrying about grandpa."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 649215, member: 1550"] One day, you are going to look at where your son is at, wherever he lands, and shake your head and regret that you often put your grandfather's needs ahead of him. He shouldn't have to deal with grandpa, Dad, Sis or the whole crew. He is taking a back seat to a man who should be in assisted living and will not live long. But your son has his whole life ahead of him and it's not looking good so far. Your kids need all your attention or you are going to be very regretful one day. Please get your son to a neuropsychologist. Not a neurologist...that won't help. Your pediatrician can't help. Get him to a neruopsych. Get him there before he gets a diagnosis of Conduct Disorder which is not treatable and often leads to adult antisocial personality disorder, criminality and prison. Let people without kids fret over your older relatives. Your kids are not doing well and they can't give up so much time of yours to your other family members. They need a well rested, healthy mother. Do you see why this is? Do you see that your priority is grandpa? The kids should never take a back seat to anyone. They are minor children in danger of having bad lives. Do you understand? I'm not trying to be mean, but it does get frustrating. Nothing changes. It should. You are too good a person for this. And your kids need you. The older and abusive members of your family are holding you back from having the time or energy to focus your full attention on your kids...and your own needs. You want to be able to say, no matter what happens with your kids when they grow up, "I did everything I could for them" not that "Well, I was too busy worrying about grandpa." [/QUOTE]
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