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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 649263" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>I know thats why Im spending even more time with kids again. This morning wasn't to bad with him, he is still edgy and you never know what will set him off but I acted like a 5 yr old making everything a competition to get ready and he did ok overall! ( yes I have done this before-but for other times we say in a loving voice ok time to get ready and hed still blow) He did bite his knee twice because I moved his plate off the floor where I tripped( I didn't see it- didn't expect it there) and I didnt do something fast enough. Im trying to teach my dad and grandpa that even though my son needs to learn how to handle people talking around him, to him, etc, that first thing in the morning is a no go unless son talks to them first. One of sons triggers. Of course one trigger may not bother him the next day!</p><p></p><p>Ok the meeting with the principal and teacher went ok. They will not let him watch a movie or audio book and do the book report, nor does he have more time. They say he wont develop reading properly without the book, I agree about reading I wasnt saying to stop it, just tweak it and still work on it little by little. But the teacher will keep him after school daily to do his H.W. with her. As far as his medications the principal is going to see if they can distribute them to him- but I reminded her they wouldn't let my son even have a breathing treatment without me there!So plan b is when we take him in, we go to the office and someone in the front office will be there with me to watch him take his medications. Well, its a start! Hes failing 3 courses, ( mainly the reading/english and lengthy writing projects) and we brought up why he doesnt want he adhd medications and the side effects. The violence and again, "well, hes perfect here, he listens to us.". uggh!!!!!!!! So my dad showed them the bathroom door he broke, mentioned him biting himself and teacher said she noticed the marks/bruising.He told her the dogs bruised him, well, they did get rough and bruise him but the rest are from himself. I need a nanny cam to record him biting himself etc so ordering that in the morning. I couldnt decide which one was a rip off as one had bad reviews but, by testers claim its good. Confusing! Son has lost 3 books now, well, one may be my fault when I was cleaning I may have mixed them with daughters, so Im going to look in a few. The P.E. issue of him changing, they wont bend either. But, son will have to learn sometimes he has to push him self just a little more, not asking a lot!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 649263, member: 18100"] I know thats why Im spending even more time with kids again. This morning wasn't to bad with him, he is still edgy and you never know what will set him off but I acted like a 5 yr old making everything a competition to get ready and he did ok overall! ( yes I have done this before-but for other times we say in a loving voice ok time to get ready and hed still blow) He did bite his knee twice because I moved his plate off the floor where I tripped( I didn't see it- didn't expect it there) and I didnt do something fast enough. Im trying to teach my dad and grandpa that even though my son needs to learn how to handle people talking around him, to him, etc, that first thing in the morning is a no go unless son talks to them first. One of sons triggers. Of course one trigger may not bother him the next day! Ok the meeting with the principal and teacher went ok. They will not let him watch a movie or audio book and do the book report, nor does he have more time. They say he wont develop reading properly without the book, I agree about reading I wasnt saying to stop it, just tweak it and still work on it little by little. But the teacher will keep him after school daily to do his H.W. with her. As far as his medications the principal is going to see if they can distribute them to him- but I reminded her they wouldn't let my son even have a breathing treatment without me there!So plan b is when we take him in, we go to the office and someone in the front office will be there with me to watch him take his medications. Well, its a start! Hes failing 3 courses, ( mainly the reading/english and lengthy writing projects) and we brought up why he doesnt want he adhd medications and the side effects. The violence and again, "well, hes perfect here, he listens to us.". uggh!!!!!!!! So my dad showed them the bathroom door he broke, mentioned him biting himself and teacher said she noticed the marks/bruising.He told her the dogs bruised him, well, they did get rough and bruise him but the rest are from himself. I need a nanny cam to record him biting himself etc so ordering that in the morning. I couldnt decide which one was a rip off as one had bad reviews but, by testers claim its good. Confusing! Son has lost 3 books now, well, one may be my fault when I was cleaning I may have mixed them with daughters, so Im going to look in a few. The P.E. issue of him changing, they wont bend either. But, son will have to learn sometimes he has to push him self just a little more, not asking a lot! [/QUOTE]
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