My son is moving on and does not want to talk to me, after I finally had it with him taking advantage of me and smoking pot not working while I pay for everything. After years I had it, but it still hurts to detach emotionaly. He is moving with some friends and getting a job. This could be good for both of us, I hope he continues seeing the psychiatrist and therapist. He is bypolar, but will go off medication and smoke pot. Hopefully this time he realizes he needs medical help. I pray god guides him and helps me to accept this.