Poor husband, He gets home from NY to have difficult child-Ant see him for 20 minutes. Then Ant ignores him for a week or two. husband laid down the law to Ant, have your GED by the 16th of July or your phone is being turned off. (Of course, both Ant and I know that was an empty threat). husband was so excited because Ant called to say he was coming over. You'd of thought some super-star sports hero was coming over for how happy husband was. Ant did come over yesterday, not to visit, but to snow daddy into thinking that he was trying to get that GED. He wanted daddy to go and set up everything and let him know when the test dates where. At least husband didn't fall for that one. husband told Ant to go figure everything out and then he'd pay the registration fee. Then Ant complained that he needs a full time job. His Uncle has one for him at the lumber mill making double minimum wage, but Ant doesn't want that one. Finally he told husband that he's just going to do his own thing right now. I'm fine with that, it's what he's always done. But poor husband is broken-hearted and down. Today, the hardest part of having difficult children in my life, is seeing how much they hurt husband. It's okay when they cause me pain, my rhino skin is pretty tough. And when it isn't, I can come here to have my wounds taken care of. Then, I also have my therapist to talk to. Poor husband, he won't see a therapist, won't come on this sight, won't anything (because he's a tough man that doesn't need that stuff). So he is now depressed, licking his wounds and mourning what could of been all alone. If you wouldn't mind, Send some board strength husband's way. He could use it. Thanks.