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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 69843" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! Great idea to see the counselor! Naturally I'm on your side, no matter what - whether you held his hand, patted his head for a job well done or not, it was HIS decision to take the action that he did. </p><p></p><p>Bottom line: we're always on our kids (difficult child's and easy child's alike) that they are making choices and that they have to live by those choices. He made a choice to violate the vows that he took before God and family. He can assign blame anywhere he wants to, but ultimately he broke the cardinal rule. He violated your trust. And as usual the timing was just perfect.</p><p></p><p>She's not his type? Gimme a break!</p><p></p><p>Now: what's key here is that you are mourning the loss of your mother, you seem to be the central support of everyone involved in that end of things, you've been running like a nut all summer, and even without Mr. Fling's added behavior, any normal human being would be beat.</p><p></p><p>Make no decisions when you're tired, hungry, scared or sad. </p><p></p><p>Great move going to the counselor. Next, I'd take his credit card and book a trip somewhere ALONE (or with a best friend) to just unwind. And right before you leave, let him know that the private detective will forward all pictures, transcripts, etc. to your attorney (you don't have to really hire them - just tell him you did - and you paid retainers with his credit card!) while you're away.</p><p></p><p>I'm truly sorry! I still can't get over how cheeky he is - not my type! What an *ss!</p><p></p><p>On another note: how did the gathering go? Was your Dad ok? I was thinking about you and wondering how it went.</p><p></p><p>God bless, kiddo!</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 69843, member: 3814"] Hi! Great idea to see the counselor! Naturally I'm on your side, no matter what - whether you held his hand, patted his head for a job well done or not, it was HIS decision to take the action that he did. Bottom line: we're always on our kids (difficult child's and easy child's alike) that they are making choices and that they have to live by those choices. He made a choice to violate the vows that he took before God and family. He can assign blame anywhere he wants to, but ultimately he broke the cardinal rule. He violated your trust. And as usual the timing was just perfect. She's not his type? Gimme a break! Now: what's key here is that you are mourning the loss of your mother, you seem to be the central support of everyone involved in that end of things, you've been running like a nut all summer, and even without Mr. Fling's added behavior, any normal human being would be beat. Make no decisions when you're tired, hungry, scared or sad. Great move going to the counselor. Next, I'd take his credit card and book a trip somewhere ALONE (or with a best friend) to just unwind. And right before you leave, let him know that the private detective will forward all pictures, transcripts, etc. to your attorney (you don't have to really hire them - just tell him you did - and you paid retainers with his credit card!) while you're away. I'm truly sorry! I still can't get over how cheeky he is - not my type! What an *ss! On another note: how did the gathering go? Was your Dad ok? I was thinking about you and wondering how it went. God bless, kiddo! Beth [/QUOTE]
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