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Husband has an adult child that was adopted.
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<blockquote data-quote="kim75062" data-source="post: 718727" data-attributes="member: 20727"><p>I agree and so does he! He was completely dumbfounded when she told him that. In her eyes her parents are treating her badly because they had their own biological child etc. </p><p></p><p>I understand her feelings but I know that its probably not true though shes convinced herself otherwise and her bio-mom will only make that worse. </p><p></p><p>I think the truth lies more around the lines of shes 22, didn't finish high school, isn't doing anything to get a GED or go to college and has no job etc. Her parents have the financial ability to help her with everything she needs to get herself into school, she just needs to want to do it! If she was my own child she'd hate me too because I wouldn't put up with it either lol It sounds like she was getting tough love and didn't like it so shes reaching out to whoever else is going to allow her to continue to not be a responsible adult. I'm glad things are going good with her and my hubby and her sisters (from hubby and myself) but she's def barking up the wrong tree if she thinks he will encourage her to not be a productive adult.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kim75062, post: 718727, member: 20727"] I agree and so does he! He was completely dumbfounded when she told him that. In her eyes her parents are treating her badly because they had their own biological child etc. I understand her feelings but I know that its probably not true though shes convinced herself otherwise and her bio-mom will only make that worse. I think the truth lies more around the lines of shes 22, didn't finish high school, isn't doing anything to get a GED or go to college and has no job etc. Her parents have the financial ability to help her with everything she needs to get herself into school, she just needs to want to do it! If she was my own child she'd hate me too because I wouldn't put up with it either lol It sounds like she was getting tough love and didn't like it so shes reaching out to whoever else is going to allow her to continue to not be a responsible adult. I'm glad things are going good with her and my hubby and her sisters (from hubby and myself) but she's def barking up the wrong tree if she thinks he will encourage her to not be a productive adult. [/QUOTE]
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