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Husband has an adult child that was adopted.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 720902" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Having done foster care, I do know disturbed young adults tend to blame their parents for their troubles and often it is exaggerated. If you spoke to her parents my guess is you would hear a very different story. I am glad she is corresponding well with your husband, but you all dont really know her yet. Please be careful and dont take sn immature, a bit unstable young persons account of her parents to necessarily be accurate. </p><p></p><p>Most of us here are lied about to others by our difficult kids. Thats what difficult kids do...blame us with tales...for sympathy from strangers, and you are all still strangers to her.</p><p></p><p>You will find out what she is really like in time. She may be hub's DNA, but she has never been his daughter. He never saw her life.</p><p></p><p>Do guard your hearts. To me, something smells fishy and there is more to her story than you know. She has alreadymade a rash decision to quickly move in with bio. Mom and now its not working and maybe you are next. She seems overly impulsive and, yes, too young in action for her years. So do remember you dont know her and her parents may have tried very hard to get her help. How many of our kids here have rewritten the truth about their upbringings?</p><p></p><p>Good luck pf course!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 720902, member: 1550"] Having done foster care, I do know disturbed young adults tend to blame their parents for their troubles and often it is exaggerated. If you spoke to her parents my guess is you would hear a very different story. I am glad she is corresponding well with your husband, but you all dont really know her yet. Please be careful and dont take sn immature, a bit unstable young persons account of her parents to necessarily be accurate. Most of us here are lied about to others by our difficult kids. Thats what difficult kids do...blame us with tales...for sympathy from strangers, and you are all still strangers to her. You will find out what she is really like in time. She may be hub's DNA, but she has never been his daughter. He never saw her life. Do guard your hearts. To me, something smells fishy and there is more to her story than you know. She has alreadymade a rash decision to quickly move in with bio. Mom and now its not working and maybe you are next. She seems overly impulsive and, yes, too young in action for her years. So do remember you dont know her and her parents may have tried very hard to get her help. How many of our kids here have rewritten the truth about their upbringings? Good luck pf course! [/QUOTE]
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