He is really stressed out about his clinic because it is very, very busy--I typed a note about this last yr--a few chiros went out of biz and now he's one of only three in the area. He had been talking about opening a second clinic for yrs now, and has looked at property, but has not made a move. He says he wants to go to a marriage therapist, but didn't make a move. So I printed out names and he didn't like them. I printed out more names and got personal recommendations, and he still hasn't made a move. He says he's not going to put up with-the anger and chaos at home any more, but hasn't made a move. He is upset because all this chaos is going on around him--Cousin P, difficult child, my driving to N VA for the visitation, my going to a different acupuncturist--and he's not in on it, and I'm thinking he's a control freak and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and has no coping skills. He is thinking about not going to Calif with-us for Christmas. THAT's mature ... your kids and wife go and you stay at home and lick your wounds? Sorry, I'm not happy about the way he's handling this. I've been going to therapy for yrs, taking classes (incl NAMI) and have taken medications, and I exercise. I have signed up difficult child for every single camp, school, and special needs class and made all of his therapy and dr appts. I have taken him to all of his blood draws. What the H*ll else does husband want? He's taking Prilosec, has temporarily given up coffee and spices, and has no other plans. Thanks for listening.