husband went and gave difficult child all his b-day presents after he told him we gave them back to the store. I guess he should get a reward for being such a good kid. difficult child has destroyed this family to the point that there is no going back now. I think its just a matter of time before I leave. I can't beleive he did this. easy child came and say's to me so difficult child gets presents for all the **** he pulls? I don't even have the answers that I should, how can you justify this to a kid who knows the deal. I guess this will teach easy child to act up in order to get what you want. The worse you behave is the more you get. I'M DONE I THINK THIS WAS THE STRAW THAT BROKE MY BACK!!!! husband say's that what else is he going to do?? I said several nasty things and told him where to stick difficult child. I'm not proud of this but I'm done. My blood pressure is probably through the roof. My face is red even after makeup. I told him we are going to act like we dont have a marriage anymore. He can sleep with difficult child and move out of our bedroom. I will only cook and clean for easy child and me until I can find a place to live. As for your difficult child you and your ex can handle it. Let her make the appointments and have meetings over this phone as she lives 3000 miles away. I will keep easy child dog and myself in my bedroom. Let him sleep with difficult child in his bedroom.. Im going to meet with a realtor in 2 hours, keep your fingers crossed that I can find something affordable and available now. My parents are going to give me the deposit and some cash for the truck rental. I will only take my personal things and thats it. He can have the house and the difficult child.