P-nut2004
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OMG Shari...if it weren't for the age difference I'd swear our DHs were separated at birth......mine is sooo much like yours. We have constant fights over where things do and do not belong, I lose important things when he 'cleans' which consists of shoving everything out of site (like a 10yr old). I have given up on the kitchen drawers, I just don't ask him to do dishes anymore because atleast easy child 1 & 2 can get things in the right cabinet even if they aren't stacked right. Yesterday we had a HUGE fight that ended with me punching a door and going for a walk to calm down.....We have a two story house, the upstairs is actually the attic and has storage space in the eves, he is in charge of putting things in there and getting them back out due to my bad back. Yesterday (after a week of me asking nicely) I insisted that he go get the girls boxes of summer clothes down. He starts fussing about not knowing where they are (because he didn't keep things in categories like I asked; holiday, clothes, decoration etc) and asks me to come up with him. OMG I almost went thru the roof, the eves on both sides are a mess of boxes, not stacked by size or content, crammed into the corners with no regard for anything labeled fragile. I was on the verge of losing it watching him toss boxes around angrily to find the clothes when he pulled out a box clearly labeled Framed Pictures FRAGILE and tossed it to the side.....it jingled and I KNEW all my frames were broken (we've only lived her for 9 months and I BEGGED him to hang the pictures for me because he's better at it but NO he refused and then one day he decided to "clean" and shoved all the boxes I had yet to unpack upstairs....so years of school pics and family pics in frames I spent good money on to have them match are busted....I completely lost it...husband says to me "Dont start with me...." I replied "Why is it that no matter what you do I am not supposed to be upset, that box has all of my good frames and pictures we payed to have taken in it" husband replies "I guess you should've hung them up, huh?" at that point I punched the wall and left before it got too ugly. Today I went back up, after I left last night he threw boxes out of the eves into the kids playroom, busting several of them open, so I crawled thru the eves and fished out most of the summer clothes, atleast one box is still MIA..... UGH.......
I SO FEEL YOUR PAIN!!
I SO FEEL YOUR PAIN!!