difficult child had a baseball game last night. Has to be there an our before the game. husband takes him and I meet them for the game. Well, when I got there, husband came up to me and said he doesn'tthink he can stay and even watch. He was so mad. During batting practice difficult child just walked away and trew his bat down. He didn't like the way the coach was pitching to him so he LEFT. It is practice...This coach isn't a pitcher, but he volunteers his time and pitches to the kids for batting practice. difficult child just complains all the while, loudly ofcourse. husband was fuming. Then difficult child came over to him to ask for his water. husband can't believe that difficult child thought nothing was wrong. I told husband (who is in denial regarding difficult child) that IS what kids with ODD do! He still said no, this isn't a disorder doing that. He was just being ...a brat. Well, I told him that is exactly what ODD does to him. husband sat quietly, watched the game and told him after that he is never to do something like that again. Most of the time difficult child targets me and is so nice to husband. Have a baseball game early tomorrow. I finished staining and waterproofing the deck. Took two days. We have a very large two level deck. One whole entire side is all spindles. Those are a pain to do. I have a horrible headache for two days. I am going to get some ice and lay down. Have to read more of your posts tomorrow.