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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 45153"><p>I am on the same place as you are. husband has never been accepting of anything with difficult child. It is his perfect boy. He use to try to justify his behaviors. difficult child's target is me. husband lets him talk bad to me, lets him yell at me. husband tells me I have to handle it. Well, I try to handle it and end up getting sucked in to difficult child's fight. husband just ignores it. About 3 months ago, maybe less a social worker from school called husband and set up a meeting with him. (concerns about me, since difficult child and I have difficult time seeing eye to eye). When I found out about the meeting I went too. Told SW I did not appreciate not being invited to a meeting when it concerns difficult child. During this meeting, husband did not say a single word. SW suggested counseling. I made an appointment. we went. He didn't say a single word. AFter 8 years of going through the ups and downs and arguing with difficult child I just cannot take it. This past week I told school, no more. No more phone calls. Call husband on his cell phone. He cannot answer it but will call you back on his break, lunch or after work. husband does not tell me now if school calls him. Don't care. Maybe, just maybe if he gets 5 phone calls in a 4 hour period he will take a step back and realize that something just isn't right. difficult child has definately come between husband and I. I have tried to do so much for difficult child at school, meetings, dr. appointment.'s. Especially school. I just can't do it anymore. Your son is still young. Hopefully husband will step up and be united with you in your concerns soon. It is very hard to do on your own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 45153"] I am on the same place as you are. husband has never been accepting of anything with difficult child. It is his perfect boy. He use to try to justify his behaviors. difficult child's target is me. husband lets him talk bad to me, lets him yell at me. husband tells me I have to handle it. Well, I try to handle it and end up getting sucked in to difficult child's fight. husband just ignores it. About 3 months ago, maybe less a social worker from school called husband and set up a meeting with him. (concerns about me, since difficult child and I have difficult time seeing eye to eye). When I found out about the meeting I went too. Told SW I did not appreciate not being invited to a meeting when it concerns difficult child. During this meeting, husband did not say a single word. SW suggested counseling. I made an appointment. we went. He didn't say a single word. AFter 8 years of going through the ups and downs and arguing with difficult child I just cannot take it. This past week I told school, no more. No more phone calls. Call husband on his cell phone. He cannot answer it but will call you back on his break, lunch or after work. husband does not tell me now if school calls him. Don't care. Maybe, just maybe if he gets 5 phone calls in a 4 hour period he will take a step back and realize that something just isn't right. difficult child has definately come between husband and I. I have tried to do so much for difficult child at school, meetings, dr. appointment.'s. Especially school. I just can't do it anymore. Your son is still young. Hopefully husband will step up and be united with you in your concerns soon. It is very hard to do on your own. [/QUOTE]
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