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<blockquote data-quote="skeeter" data-source="post: 74143" data-attributes="member: 439"><p>Karen- NO one moves that fast that hasn't thought about what steps to take LONG in advance.</p><p>I'm sorry, but I think he's been "planning" this for a while. Maybe not the actual time frame, but one just doesn't start putting properties up for sale, etc. as part of the "first step". It's almost (to me) like he had played this scene in his mind long before, and now he's just following through on those plans.</p><p></p><p>As to whether "you" are at fault - Big Whooping Deal. I was the one that filed, so as far as everyone was concerned, I was at fault. Heck, my ex convinced himself AND the kids I was at fault. As time has gone by, however, the kids have seen through that - in fact, they have asked me in no uncertain terms how I managed to stay married for as long as I did.</p><p></p><p>There will be people that see you as the bad guy, no matter WHAT you do. They can get over it, or they can get out of your life. Don't worry about them.</p><p></p><p>Make sure YOU have all your ducks in a row. I know you haven't had time to think, but the very first thing you MUST do is see an attorney. Let them do the thinking for you. It wouldn't surprise me to find out you suddenly don't have a house to live in or money to your name.</p><p></p><p>Take care of yourself........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="skeeter, post: 74143, member: 439"] Karen- NO one moves that fast that hasn't thought about what steps to take LONG in advance. I'm sorry, but I think he's been "planning" this for a while. Maybe not the actual time frame, but one just doesn't start putting properties up for sale, etc. as part of the "first step". It's almost (to me) like he had played this scene in his mind long before, and now he's just following through on those plans. As to whether "you" are at fault - Big Whooping Deal. I was the one that filed, so as far as everyone was concerned, I was at fault. Heck, my ex convinced himself AND the kids I was at fault. As time has gone by, however, the kids have seen through that - in fact, they have asked me in no uncertain terms how I managed to stay married for as long as I did. There will be people that see you as the bad guy, no matter WHAT you do. They can get over it, or they can get out of your life. Don't worry about them. Make sure YOU have all your ducks in a row. I know you haven't had time to think, but the very first thing you MUST do is see an attorney. Let them do the thinking for you. It wouldn't surprise me to find out you suddenly don't have a house to live in or money to your name. Take care of yourself........ [/QUOTE]
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