Dear everywoman,
I am so sorry to hear of husband's relapse but I do understand, unfortunately, how it can happen. Will husband be in a dual diagnosis facility? Don't know what his "drug of choice" is but there IS a very strong relationship between depression and alcoholism. Also, will husband go to AA or Narc anon meetings? The support can really help. Al Anon might be great for you too, there are plenty of women who are in the same boat.
Hoping with help, time and healing that you and husband can be restored to a strong unit again.
with love and care,
Tammy, lms