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<blockquote data-quote="SearchingForRainbows" data-source="post: 17005" data-attributes="member: 3388"><p>difficult children issues have caused many problems in my relationship with husband. Some of the problems were probably always beneath the surface but probably wouldn't be out in the open if we didn't have two difficult children. So, in a way, maybe difficult children are doing us a favor!!! In some ways, we just aren't compatible.</p><p></p><p>I vacillate between wanting to keep our marriage intact to wanting to divorce. Every time I make a list of pros and cons, there seems to be about an even number on both sides of my list.</p><p></p><p>My biggest problem with husband is that he doesn't stop to think most of the time before acting out. Last night was a perfect example. difficult child 1 was doing something he wasn't supposed to do. I confronted difficult child 1 and difficult child 1 denied doing anything wrong. husband automatically took difficult child 1's side and was belittling me in front of difficult child 1. </p><p></p><p>husband knows this is the worst possible thing he can do but is either unable or unwilling to stop. difficult child 1 thrives on conflict - HE LOVES IT!!! So difficult child 1 totally enjoyed last night's fireworks. </p><p></p><p>I'm always the one who remains calm in front of my difficult children. No matter what husband says, I don't fuel the fire. husband knows this about me. In some ways I think husband has an inferiority complex and feels a need to exert control over me. It SUCKS!!!</p><p></p><p>Anyway, now I will have the week from HELL with difficult child 1!!! Sorry this is so long... I guess I just need to vent!!! WFEN</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SearchingForRainbows, post: 17005, member: 3388"] difficult children issues have caused many problems in my relationship with husband. Some of the problems were probably always beneath the surface but probably wouldn't be out in the open if we didn't have two difficult children. So, in a way, maybe difficult children are doing us a favor!!! In some ways, we just aren't compatible. I vacillate between wanting to keep our marriage intact to wanting to divorce. Every time I make a list of pros and cons, there seems to be about an even number on both sides of my list. My biggest problem with husband is that he doesn't stop to think most of the time before acting out. Last night was a perfect example. difficult child 1 was doing something he wasn't supposed to do. I confronted difficult child 1 and difficult child 1 denied doing anything wrong. husband automatically took difficult child 1's side and was belittling me in front of difficult child 1. husband knows this is the worst possible thing he can do but is either unable or unwilling to stop. difficult child 1 thrives on conflict - HE LOVES IT!!! So difficult child 1 totally enjoyed last night's fireworks. I'm always the one who remains calm in front of my difficult children. No matter what husband says, I don't fuel the fire. husband knows this about me. In some ways I think husband has an inferiority complex and feels a need to exert control over me. It SUCKS!!! Anyway, now I will have the week from HELL with difficult child 1!!! Sorry this is so long... I guess I just need to vent!!! WFEN [/QUOTE]
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