Okay, I always vent about difficult child, now it is husband's turn!!!!!!!!!!! difficult child calls me to tell me she just talked to PO who told her she doesn't think it is going to work out for difficult child up at my mom's. She said that she told her that she should be back here and go to a program six hours south of us. Meanwhile, I talked to this woman on my way home yesterday and she agreed completely with my stance that she attend a program before she comes back here. So I am baffled but this isn't the first time difficult child has told me something PO said that was complete opposite of what PO told me. So, of course I get absolutely furious and call husband to tell him the nerve this woman has! I mean, if she is going to go get difficult child and bring her down to the center, great! But don't offer that up as a choice! I am not willing to fly difficult child here again and then drive six hours south to the center that she says she should go to. There are wonderful programs right where she is!!! One run by a childhood friend of mine!! And what does husband do? Gets mad at me for believing difficult child. Actually starts yelling at me because I believed PO said all of this to difficult child. Okay, I had put a call in to PO and haven't heard back from her, but still, you are going to yell at me???? I am so SICK and tired of being the only one that has to deal with all of this poo and he can't even just listen to me when I need to vent??? I'm SO mad. At PO. At him. At difficult child for probably manipulating PO to think she is living in miserable conditions. I reiterated to difficult child that under no circumstances will she ever live with us again until she has gone through a program. She claims she can stay off drugs with out it. Well, honey, if you can that is great. But I told her she needs to understand that I am not taking the chance that she makes the right choice in my home. I am already sick to my stomach at everything that was in my home that I had no idea was up there. Right across the hall from easy child. Thanks. I feel better. A little.