she is exhausting....she takes more energy than my younger two daughters (11 and 10) combined. We have given her EVERYTHING and EVERY opportunity from exchange programs to France, to a horse and horse showing, teaching her to drive, hiring a lawyer to get her the 504 plan she needs....and she is a beast. She is defiant, angry, mean, fresh and just miserable to be around and to talk to. I don't even know what to do anymore...I was so angry at her this morning, that I could have opened the car door and shoved her out. God help me.