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<blockquote data-quote="allusedup" data-source="post: 656159" data-attributes="member: 19029"><p></p></blockquote><p>I am having a hard time adding to this thread but first would like to say thanks for the replies thus far.....Finally I am hearing the voices of reason. This has been keeping me up at night.</p><p> The background that I know is really not good. First his mother was only 17 when she had him. She was married to the father for only 6 months after the child was born. Each parent has him every other week. She was living with her mother in a stable environment but then moved in with her father and his wife where he was allowed and even encouraged to misbehave. His grandfather thought it was funny to teach him foul language. The childs father is married again and they have a 1y/o whom they favor. With no schedule or routine, no consistancy and being treated like a red headed step child, it is no wonder that the poor child acts out. The mothers parenting skills are terrible and I have tried to encourage and suggest about a routine and consistancy.</p><p> And yes, I know my son has no clue as to the severity of the situation. I have talked to him about ODD but I haven't mentioned my worries about autism. I was so relieved to find this site. I guess I feel I need some back up. I don't feel that I am overrracting but she/they may. Another red flag here is that the child is developmentally delayed by I would guess about a year. Again thanks in advance to everyone.</p><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="allusedup, post: 656159, member: 19029"] [/QUOTE] I am having a hard time adding to this thread but first would like to say thanks for the replies thus far.....Finally I am hearing the voices of reason. This has been keeping me up at night. The background that I know is really not good. First his mother was only 17 when she had him. She was married to the father for only 6 months after the child was born. Each parent has him every other week. She was living with her mother in a stable environment but then moved in with her father and his wife where he was allowed and even encouraged to misbehave. His grandfather thought it was funny to teach him foul language. The childs father is married again and they have a 1y/o whom they favor. With no schedule or routine, no consistancy and being treated like a red headed step child, it is no wonder that the poor child acts out. The mothers parenting skills are terrible and I have tried to encourage and suggest about a routine and consistancy. And yes, I know my son has no clue as to the severity of the situation. I have talked to him about ODD but I haven't mentioned my worries about autism. I was so relieved to find this site. I guess I feel I need some back up. I don't feel that I am overrracting but she/they may. Another red flag here is that the child is developmentally delayed by I would guess about a year. Again thanks in advance to everyone. [/QUOTE]
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