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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 656172" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Right there, you just told yourself the answer: you can't take this on.</p><p> </p><p>Which is a good thing. This kid needs to be around "neutral" care-givers, who are going to flag the problems - or at least, will refuse to deal with the kid and keep pushing back at the parents. They may go through caregivers really fast for a while until the parents get the point that this kid needs help.</p><p> </p><p>As SWOT said, there is a chance that there may be some attachment issues. But there is more. That developmental delay? HUGE red flag. And it means he really needs intensive intervention NOW, not when he starts school.</p><p> </p><p>Many parents take poor behavior as a personal slap - and don't want to deal with it because they will just be told to change their parenting. Which is partly true. However, that does NOT mean that the behavior is the result of "bad" parenting. Differently wired kids need a different style of parenting. And many differently wired kids can't handle the standard split between two households - it's too much transition.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 656172, member: 11791"] Right there, you just told yourself the answer: you can't take this on. Which is a good thing. This kid needs to be around "neutral" care-givers, who are going to flag the problems - or at least, will refuse to deal with the kid and keep pushing back at the parents. They may go through caregivers really fast for a while until the parents get the point that this kid needs help. As SWOT said, there is a chance that there may be some attachment issues. But there is more. That developmental delay? HUGE red flag. And it means he really needs intensive intervention NOW, not when he starts school. Many parents take poor behavior as a personal slap - and don't want to deal with it because they will just be told to change their parenting. Which is partly true. However, that does NOT mean that the behavior is the result of "bad" parenting. Differently wired kids need a different style of parenting. And many differently wired kids can't handle the standard split between two households - it's too much transition. [/QUOTE]
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