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I am new here with 37 yr old at home- and hope I can find and give help.
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 748173" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>So sorry you are living like this.</p><p></p><p>I agree with the others. Take your life back. Get your wife back.</p><p></p><p>You have to see that you are not helping your son. I would say he has to be out of your home and on his own and that is what I would do. Do not stop until he is on his own.</p><p></p><p>It does not mean you do not love him. Love has nothing to do with it.</p><p></p><p>Our son is 23 and I am trying to prepare him to be on his own. He has had setbacks due to his drug use but now is doing well.</p><p></p><p>FIRM BOUNDARIES are mandatory. You have to change everything about how you relate to him. It is NOT easy but it can be done. Many here are living proof of that.</p><p></p><p>Good luck and keep reading and posting. You will get strength and courage here. I did.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 748173, member: 15032"] So sorry you are living like this. I agree with the others. Take your life back. Get your wife back. You have to see that you are not helping your son. I would say he has to be out of your home and on his own and that is what I would do. Do not stop until he is on his own. It does not mean you do not love him. Love has nothing to do with it. Our son is 23 and I am trying to prepare him to be on his own. He has had setbacks due to his drug use but now is doing well. FIRM BOUNDARIES are mandatory. You have to change everything about how you relate to him. It is NOT easy but it can be done. Many here are living proof of that. Good luck and keep reading and posting. You will get strength and courage here. I did. [/QUOTE]
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