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<blockquote data-quote="Jen" data-source="post: 74144" data-attributes="member: 297"><p>We got the letter from our lawyer the toerh day basically saying it it up to us if we want to pursue the contempt charges.</p><p></p><p>It was a yr ago when we had to dish out another 500.00 when we took her to court filing a contempt charge for not bringing the kid in for visits. Well we are right back their again. My husband is not sure he wants to dish out the money again. He feels this will continue to happen as long as hse is involved with this boyfriend. I see his thought in this, but I think about these kids that we barely know, adn really for the most part havent bonded as part of our family, except for the oldest that were able to bond with from her birth. Part of me though feel we should follow through, let the consequences occur, and hope that a lesson will be learned.</p><p></p><p>We have actually thought about calling her work place and then hope to getg through to her as her boyfriend would not be there to know. Thought about driving by their home to get the adress so we can send the kids stuff via certified mail, and maybe see if we could knock on the door ( no restraining orders), the other idea is to stop at her Dads and see if he is aware of this (she depends alot on him) and make sure she is ok.</p><p></p><p>Can you give me your opinions?</p><p></p><p>Jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jen, post: 74144, member: 297"] We got the letter from our lawyer the toerh day basically saying it it up to us if we want to pursue the contempt charges. It was a yr ago when we had to dish out another 500.00 when we took her to court filing a contempt charge for not bringing the kid in for visits. Well we are right back their again. My husband is not sure he wants to dish out the money again. He feels this will continue to happen as long as hse is involved with this boyfriend. I see his thought in this, but I think about these kids that we barely know, adn really for the most part havent bonded as part of our family, except for the oldest that were able to bond with from her birth. Part of me though feel we should follow through, let the consequences occur, and hope that a lesson will be learned. We have actually thought about calling her work place and then hope to getg through to her as her boyfriend would not be there to know. Thought about driving by their home to get the adress so we can send the kids stuff via certified mail, and maybe see if we could knock on the door ( no restraining orders), the other idea is to stop at her Dads and see if he is aware of this (she depends alot on him) and make sure she is ok. Can you give me your opinions? Jen [/QUOTE]
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