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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 75407" data-attributes="member: 99"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What my husband and I have decided is to leave a message on her cell phone. We may have to *67 first because my husband thinks there has been a block on recieving our calls. My husband message will be to her knowing the boyfriend will listen and probably never giver her the message. It will say something to the fact about seeing the kids, that we have tried to reach her, but she must not be getting our messages, that we are concerned for her safety and the children. That we have talked with her boyfriend and that he is obviously not giving her the messages. Have debated whether to call her Dad or the police, short of stopping by the house to make sure she and the kids are ok.</p><p></p><p>Want to still stop by her house and get the address, or may call our lawyer and get it, and send certified letters too after that above idea.</p><p></p><p>What do you all think?</p><p></p><p>I dont want to take the kids away, I want to be a grandparent only.</p><p></p><p>Jen </div></div></p><p></p><p>If you don't think she will get the message, what is the point?</p><p></p><p>I really think that if what you want is visits, you send a certified letter (cost is $3.06) saying you will be there for visit at a set time. Period. Then no one gets to say that she didn't get the message. If she disallows the visit, you cross that bridge when you come to it.</p><p></p><p>The bitterness you feel is natural. It's probably provoked. But it serves no one well to act upon it. Keep your eye on the prize. Visits. The rest only serves to bring you down to their level.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 75407, member: 99"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What my husband and I have decided is to leave a message on her cell phone. We may have to *67 first because my husband thinks there has been a block on recieving our calls. My husband message will be to her knowing the boyfriend will listen and probably never giver her the message. It will say something to the fact about seeing the kids, that we have tried to reach her, but she must not be getting our messages, that we are concerned for her safety and the children. That we have talked with her boyfriend and that he is obviously not giving her the messages. Have debated whether to call her Dad or the police, short of stopping by the house to make sure she and the kids are ok. Want to still stop by her house and get the address, or may call our lawyer and get it, and send certified letters too after that above idea. What do you all think? I dont want to take the kids away, I want to be a grandparent only. Jen </div></div> If you don't think she will get the message, what is the point? I really think that if what you want is visits, you send a certified letter (cost is $3.06) saying you will be there for visit at a set time. Period. Then no one gets to say that she didn't get the message. If she disallows the visit, you cross that bridge when you come to it. The bitterness you feel is natural. It's probably provoked. But it serves no one well to act upon it. Keep your eye on the prize. Visits. The rest only serves to bring you down to their level. [/QUOTE]
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