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I called CPS on Sons girlfriend with new baby today
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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 690262" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>Big warm hugs, DM. You've already called CPS, so there's no point in second guessing yourself. I think it would be better for you not to speak to girlfriend's parents about what girlfriend is doing or not doing. I think I would be saying to them, "If you need me to watch the baby for awhile, I can do that. I cannot discuss what your daughter is doing with you. If you need help with her, call social services (or county mental health, insert appropriate government agency here)" You are getting sucked into the craziness because you love that grandchild. </p><p></p><p>Nothing feeds that drama like witnesses. If you want to stay sane yourself, you're going to have to not discuss the crazies with them. You are going to have to practice detachment with the whole dang family. </p><p></p><p>I feel for the baby girl. She was born into a chaotic world. I hope one day you will be able to show her a calm, loving home, even if it is only for visits. But that day isn't today. </p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 690262, member: 11832"] Big warm hugs, DM. You've already called CPS, so there's no point in second guessing yourself. I think it would be better for you not to speak to girlfriend's parents about what girlfriend is doing or not doing. I think I would be saying to them, "If you need me to watch the baby for awhile, I can do that. I cannot discuss what your daughter is doing with you. If you need help with her, call social services (or county mental health, insert appropriate government agency here)" You are getting sucked into the craziness because you love that grandchild. Nothing feeds that drama like witnesses. If you want to stay sane yourself, you're going to have to not discuss the crazies with them. You are going to have to practice detachment with the whole dang family. I feel for the baby girl. She was born into a chaotic world. I hope one day you will be able to show her a calm, loving home, even if it is only for visits. But that day isn't today. :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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