difficult child just called me from school. She actually wanted me to call the school and give her permission to miss her last two hours so she can go to a friends senior photo shoot. I said that I was sorry, but she is failing 4th hour and has a low D in 5th hour and I just can't do that. SHe has 7 absences in 4th hour (most of them skips and a few for illness or appointment's) and 11 tardies. She is close to being dropped from the class for the year and spending that hour in ISS and then do Fridays of after school ISS til 6pm. There really is only next week of school left, then MTW the following week is for finals. Then she threatened to just skip and go any way!
I had already given her permission for this girl to come over after school, that I would take them to the school concert, then spend the night at her friends house. I actually thought I was more than lenient based on all her school troubles.
She is like a run away train... she can't slow down once she fixates on what she wants. It is all about what she wants. I don't know how we are going to survive this and the next 3 years of high school. I called her principal (we have talked a lot lately) and left him a voice mail what was up and wanted to verify whether she was in 4th and 5th hour.
Oh, she just called again... apologized, then wanted me to let her out at the end of 5th hour early. I finally asked why the time change? When you have professional photos taken you have a specific time and place to meet the photographer. Then she told me her appointment is at 4pm. The reason she wanted out of school early was to go with her to her hair appointment!!
This child has no reasoning skills. She actually just yelled at me that "you don't know how important this is to me!!!!" I know she doesn't realize how important passing 9th grade is to me!!
So I told her to call me back with where the 4 oclock appointment is and maybe I could take her there. Am I a wimp? I do want her to have friends and I know she had an awful week with girl drama in choir and a girl trying to fight her and other girls waiting to video tape it!
I can't believe the audacity she has. KSM
I had already given her permission for this girl to come over after school, that I would take them to the school concert, then spend the night at her friends house. I actually thought I was more than lenient based on all her school troubles.
She is like a run away train... she can't slow down once she fixates on what she wants. It is all about what she wants. I don't know how we are going to survive this and the next 3 years of high school. I called her principal (we have talked a lot lately) and left him a voice mail what was up and wanted to verify whether she was in 4th and 5th hour.
Oh, she just called again... apologized, then wanted me to let her out at the end of 5th hour early. I finally asked why the time change? When you have professional photos taken you have a specific time and place to meet the photographer. Then she told me her appointment is at 4pm. The reason she wanted out of school early was to go with her to her hair appointment!!
This child has no reasoning skills. She actually just yelled at me that "you don't know how important this is to me!!!!" I know she doesn't realize how important passing 9th grade is to me!!
So I told her to call me back with where the 4 oclock appointment is and maybe I could take her there. Am I a wimp? I do want her to have friends and I know she had an awful week with girl drama in choir and a girl trying to fight her and other girls waiting to video tape it!
I can't believe the audacity she has. KSM