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I CAN'T TAKE IT! CAN'T TAKE difficult child RELATIONSHIPS!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 633304" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>I don't get it either. It very likely has something to do with a self esteem issue. How old is she? Does she have good female friends? Does she go to school or work? Does she have any hobbies? It's so sad. What about doing something that might boost her self esteem? Maybe not right this second, but as soon as she makes at least a little headway with reference to clearer thinking and less emotion. I'm not sure why, but my attitude was that if a guy didn't want me....that was just tooooo bad. His loss. LOL! BUT, I was very active and somewhat popular in high school. In college, I was super busy studying and also had a few activities to participate in that I enjoyed very much. She might need therapy as well. At least she would be able to have someone to speak with weekly who might be able to work with her to help her make better choices in boyfriends and help her stay strong during break ups. Perhaps a Mental Health Counselor. I'm at a loss as to what to say to her right at the moment. It's very hard when they are irrational. But, I would let her know that even though she is very upset, she doesn't have the right to scream, curse or cause upset in the family. She needs to exhibit some self control.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 633304, member: 4152"] I don't get it either. It very likely has something to do with a self esteem issue. How old is she? Does she have good female friends? Does she go to school or work? Does she have any hobbies? It's so sad. What about doing something that might boost her self esteem? Maybe not right this second, but as soon as she makes at least a little headway with reference to clearer thinking and less emotion. I'm not sure why, but my attitude was that if a guy didn't want me....that was just tooooo bad. His loss. LOL! BUT, I was very active and somewhat popular in high school. In college, I was super busy studying and also had a few activities to participate in that I enjoyed very much. She might need therapy as well. At least she would be able to have someone to speak with weekly who might be able to work with her to help her make better choices in boyfriends and help her stay strong during break ups. Perhaps a Mental Health Counselor. I'm at a loss as to what to say to her right at the moment. It's very hard when they are irrational. But, I would let her know that even though she is very upset, she doesn't have the right to scream, curse or cause upset in the family. She needs to exhibit some self control. [/QUOTE]
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