confuzzled
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'nuff said.
difficult child 2 given an assignment--a defend your position paper, if you will (in MAY??). she freaks out immediately yesterday over it. the TEACHER gives the class the choice of two positions...of course, she choose the goofier, more kid friendly of the two. she goes into full blown panic mode over the big picture, and has a rough day.
but she makes a great go of it to start--like pulling teeth to do all of the pre-requisite steps for this ridiculously long and involved assignment and takes tons of coaxing/supported questioning to get on track, but she does. came up with all of her reasons and supporting statements.
and then........
teacher tells her today that she will not be able to convince anyone of her position and that she *MUST* start over with the other position.
difficult child 2 has a meltdown.
and therefore, the entire 90 min of classtime was lost, so its alllll now for homework.
am i the only one who doesnt blame her??????? FTLOG, this is 5th grade, not the college debate team. what DIFFERENCE does it make, as long as she does the assignment?
(and, quite frankly, if you all remember, we are not supposed to be doing extensive writing assignments, but i digress)
so today we start again. i let her take a break after a hour into homework....this will take forever to do.
i of course told her melting down is unappropriate and unacceptable. but i also told her i understood how she felt. (right or wrong, i do understand!)
what i really wanted to say?
well, i doubt i could keep it clean, so use your imaginations.....
difficult child 2 given an assignment--a defend your position paper, if you will (in MAY??). she freaks out immediately yesterday over it. the TEACHER gives the class the choice of two positions...of course, she choose the goofier, more kid friendly of the two. she goes into full blown panic mode over the big picture, and has a rough day.
but she makes a great go of it to start--like pulling teeth to do all of the pre-requisite steps for this ridiculously long and involved assignment and takes tons of coaxing/supported questioning to get on track, but she does. came up with all of her reasons and supporting statements.
and then........
teacher tells her today that she will not be able to convince anyone of her position and that she *MUST* start over with the other position.
difficult child 2 has a meltdown.
and therefore, the entire 90 min of classtime was lost, so its alllll now for homework.
am i the only one who doesnt blame her??????? FTLOG, this is 5th grade, not the college debate team. what DIFFERENCE does it make, as long as she does the assignment?
(and, quite frankly, if you all remember, we are not supposed to be doing extensive writing assignments, but i digress)
so today we start again. i let her take a break after a hour into homework....this will take forever to do.
i of course told her melting down is unappropriate and unacceptable. but i also told her i understood how she felt. (right or wrong, i do understand!)
what i really wanted to say?
well, i doubt i could keep it clean, so use your imaginations.....