My sister has lived in Baltimore since 1980. I have never been to visit her. There are a thousand excuses for not going, too far to drive, work, money, afraid to fly.....the list goes on. The biggest reason has been the false need to be "available" in case I was needed. I bit the bullet and booked a flight for Nov.6. I will spend 10 days visiting and exploring that part of the world. This is huge for me. I am terrfied of flying. I will have to let go of my codependent self and just be in the moment.