I DID IT!!!!

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by pasajes4, Oct 9, 2017.

  1. pasajes4

    pasajes4 Well-Known Member

    My sister has lived in Baltimore since 1980. I have never been to visit her. There are a thousand excuses for not going, too far to drive, work, money, afraid to fly.....the list goes on. The biggest reason has been the false need to be "available" in case I was needed.

    I bit the bullet and booked a flight for Nov.6. I will spend 10 days visiting and exploring that part of the world. This is huge for me. I am terrfied of flying. I will have to let go of my codependent self and just be in the moment.
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  2. Littleboylost

    Littleboylost On the road unwanted to travel

    Pasa how wonderful for you. I am very excited about your trip. Enjoy enjoy enjoy!
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  3. Tanya M

    Tanya M Living with an attitude of gratitude Staff Member

    Pasa that's wonderful!!!!

    If you have a fear of flying you might check with your Dr. to see if they can prescribe something to calm you. Also, remember your breathing, slow deep breaths in and out with your eyes closed.

    I would also notify the police and let them know when you will be gone and ask them if they can drive by your home just to keep an eye on it.

    You so deserve a break from all that has been going on. Yes, live in the moment and EnJoy!!!!
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  4. SomewhereOutThere

    SomewhereOutThere Well-Known Member

    Good for you!!!! Have so much fun!!!
  5. wisernow

    wisernow wisernow

    wonderful news. Have fun. You deserve it!
  6. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Have a wonderful visit!
  7. RN0441

    RN0441 100% better than I was but not at 100% yet

    Great news! Great idea.

    Some sisterly love is just what you need right now. This is going to be a fun journey for you so take it in and enjoy every minute.

    Be kind to yourself. You so deserve this!
  8. Sam3

    Sam3 Active Member

    I second that suggestion. Even just knowing you have a little something with you, if your nerves take over, can soothe the nerves.

    But maybe experiment in advance. ;)
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  9. Copabanana

    Copabanana Well-Known Member

    how wonderful!! i take xanex. just don't drink. not even wine. once i had some wine (and a xanex) on the plane. i threw up in the toilet and the stewardess had to spray me with air freshener. she wasn't even discrete. so happy for you.
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  10. pigless in VA

    pigless in VA Well-Known Member

    Baltimore has a fabulous, peaceful aquarium full of nice quiet serene fish.
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  11. Lil

    Lil Well-Known Member

    Closed window, headphones, valium. :) You'll be fine. Taking off and landing are the only parts that are scary and they don't last long.

    Have a great trip!
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