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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 639295" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>I am sitting here going over and over and over in my mind that while I was only in the living room and she was in the bedroom, which is really close by, I live in a condo, so no more than 15 feet, she was ripping apart my screen window with a knife and I heard it. I heard it so loudly so she knew it was loud. She knew I was in here, she saw me. I knocked on the door, went in and saw nothing. I didn't even think to check the window. I didn't discover it until the next day which was two hours ago. How could she take a knife and cut my whole screen out of the window? You have to understand, the window in that bedroom is a very big window. I am just picturing her cut it all the way across and all the way down and all the way across again, while I was sitting just 15 feet away. It sounded like duct tape. rrrrriiiiiiiiiiipppppppppp, like ripping duct tape. Now I know she was cutting the screen and that's what the ripping noise was. I am on facebook right now, and guess what, so is she. I see her in my message box with the little green dot. She is up right now like I am. All of her stuff is in the room. All her nice, expensive stuff. All very nice, neat and put away. And the room smells so good from all of her expensive scented lotions. She even has her instrument in there. I want to break it all and then I feel bad all at the same time just looking at it. When my difficult child gets home tomorrow from work and I am telling difficult child to take B's things and put them in her car and take them to her. It's heartbreaking. She was only here two days and she was all set up in the guest bedroom. Only to be brought back out. I have no idea how my daughter is going to react to all of this. I am wondering if she knew and if she didn't know, how is she going to feel when she finds out her best friend damaged our property like this. B broke out of here like a caged animal and she wasn't even caged. She was out all day and was only home for hours before she did that.</p><p></p><p>This isn't my fault. It's B's fault, but why do I feel so extremely bad right now about what's going to happen?</p><p></p><p>I welcomed her into my home, fed her and made it comfortable for her. Gave her little rules. So easy to follow. She broke my trust. That trust has now been "thrown out the window", quite literally.</p><p></p><p>I'm so mellow dramatic, aren't I? I don't care. I don't live this way and never had anyone do something like this in my home. I truly didn't see this coming from her, even though I know you all probably saw this from a mile away. I am more shocked it came from her of all people. If you saw how big my window is in there and how the whole entire screen is cut, but put back so perfectly and tucked so I didn't notice, but I did notice. I notice EVERYTHING and B is going to find that out tomorrow. I have to pay for this, a single, broke, disabled mother. However, B comes from a wealthy family. It seems I always have to pay for it all when it comes to difficult child's friends. No <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing more.</p><p></p><p>Sorry for talking to myself. I replied to myself three times already. I am just really nervous about tomorrow and need to get this all out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 639295, member: 18233"] I am sitting here going over and over and over in my mind that while I was only in the living room and she was in the bedroom, which is really close by, I live in a condo, so no more than 15 feet, she was ripping apart my screen window with a knife and I heard it. I heard it so loudly so she knew it was loud. She knew I was in here, she saw me. I knocked on the door, went in and saw nothing. I didn't even think to check the window. I didn't discover it until the next day which was two hours ago. How could she take a knife and cut my whole screen out of the window? You have to understand, the window in that bedroom is a very big window. I am just picturing her cut it all the way across and all the way down and all the way across again, while I was sitting just 15 feet away. It sounded like duct tape. rrrrriiiiiiiiiiipppppppppp, like ripping duct tape. Now I know she was cutting the screen and that's what the ripping noise was. I am on facebook right now, and guess what, so is she. I see her in my message box with the little green dot. She is up right now like I am. All of her stuff is in the room. All her nice, expensive stuff. All very nice, neat and put away. And the room smells so good from all of her expensive scented lotions. She even has her instrument in there. I want to break it all and then I feel bad all at the same time just looking at it. When my difficult child gets home tomorrow from work and I am telling difficult child to take B's things and put them in her car and take them to her. It's heartbreaking. She was only here two days and she was all set up in the guest bedroom. Only to be brought back out. I have no idea how my daughter is going to react to all of this. I am wondering if she knew and if she didn't know, how is she going to feel when she finds out her best friend damaged our property like this. B broke out of here like a caged animal and she wasn't even caged. She was out all day and was only home for hours before she did that. This isn't my fault. It's B's fault, but why do I feel so extremely bad right now about what's going to happen? I welcomed her into my home, fed her and made it comfortable for her. Gave her little rules. So easy to follow. She broke my trust. That trust has now been "thrown out the window", quite literally. I'm so mellow dramatic, aren't I? I don't care. I don't live this way and never had anyone do something like this in my home. I truly didn't see this coming from her, even though I know you all probably saw this from a mile away. I am more shocked it came from her of all people. If you saw how big my window is in there and how the whole entire screen is cut, but put back so perfectly and tucked so I didn't notice, but I did notice. I notice EVERYTHING and B is going to find that out tomorrow. I have to pay for this, a single, broke, disabled mother. However, B comes from a wealthy family. It seems I always have to pay for it all when it comes to difficult child's friends. No :censored2:ing more. Sorry for talking to myself. I replied to myself three times already. I am just really nervous about tomorrow and need to get this all out. [/QUOTE]
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