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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 639296" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>GM...so your learned something. Don't beat yourself up.</p><p></p><p>My daughter used to get out of her room at night when we were sleeping. It's common, especially in the drug world, and, since it's not your daughter, I'm going to say that it is probably more than weed. Kids don't bust out of their rooms for weed. We put bars up on my daughter's window, but she walked out the front door when we were sleeping. I would get frantic and go looking for her, but the cops usually brought her back for violating curfew.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, we don't always know people we've "known" all of our lives sometimes and young adults (and older adults) on drugs have no morals because they are drug addicts and the fun and the high comes first. Many of them like the thrill of sneaking out so maybe just leaving would not have been as much fun.</p><p></p><p>I promised not to tell mothers to throw out their own children unless they were a danger to them. GM, you probably<em><strong> should</strong></em> go that route with this young woman. She's not your daughter, even if you care about her, and she violated your trust and cost you money.</p><p></p><p>I guess this is why my friend finally stopped allowing people to stay with her. As she said to me, "I always get burned so I'm done." And she was done. Hey...at least you learned something. Basically if nobody in your family will have you in their home, there is a reason.</p><p></p><p>by the way, my father owned a few pharmacists and was one before retirement so we had money (not that we ever saw it, but we did live in a rich neighborhood). Those kids had the money to do more drugs than the less affluent kids, and they did. That was where I got MY first shock. One doctor's daughter had a stroke from cocaine. Don't think money is a deterrent. It isn't.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and try to have a good night. I would have B's bags packed in the morning. This is the last thing you need with so much on your plate. Take care of yourself and have a good rest-of-the-night. This is more about her than you. Don't take it personally. And don't feel bad about the wrong somebody else did to you. If that's one small lesson you can learn tonight, that is a baby step <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 639296, member: 1550"] GM...so your learned something. Don't beat yourself up. My daughter used to get out of her room at night when we were sleeping. It's common, especially in the drug world, and, since it's not your daughter, I'm going to say that it is probably more than weed. Kids don't bust out of their rooms for weed. We put bars up on my daughter's window, but she walked out the front door when we were sleeping. I would get frantic and go looking for her, but the cops usually brought her back for violating curfew. Unfortunately, we don't always know people we've "known" all of our lives sometimes and young adults (and older adults) on drugs have no morals because they are drug addicts and the fun and the high comes first. Many of them like the thrill of sneaking out so maybe just leaving would not have been as much fun. I promised not to tell mothers to throw out their own children unless they were a danger to them. GM, you probably[I][B] should[/B][/I] go that route with this young woman. She's not your daughter, even if you care about her, and she violated your trust and cost you money. I guess this is why my friend finally stopped allowing people to stay with her. As she said to me, "I always get burned so I'm done." And she was done. Hey...at least you learned something. Basically if nobody in your family will have you in their home, there is a reason. by the way, my father owned a few pharmacists and was one before retirement so we had money (not that we ever saw it, but we did live in a rich neighborhood). Those kids had the money to do more drugs than the less affluent kids, and they did. That was where I got MY first shock. One doctor's daughter had a stroke from cocaine. Don't think money is a deterrent. It isn't. Hugs and try to have a good night. I would have B's bags packed in the morning. This is the last thing you need with so much on your plate. Take care of yourself and have a good rest-of-the-night. This is more about her than you. Don't take it personally. And don't feel bad about the wrong somebody else did to you. If that's one small lesson you can learn tonight, that is a baby step :) [/QUOTE]
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