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I don't even know what to TITLE this I'm so UPSET
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 639305" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I have always been very, very fast on the keyboards <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>It isn't your fault that this girl may end her friendship with your daughter. And, to be honest, she doesn't sound as if she is a very good influence on your vulnerable daughter anyway. You are doing nothing to end their friendship. You are asking B to leave due to her behavior under your roof. If difficult child blames you, again, my careful advice...at least it has worked well for me with a mouthy difficult child...is to not engage your difficult child much. Answer with "Uh huh" or "I see" or "I'm sorry you're hurting" or whatever. Or take that walk, or drive, or visit to a friend's house.</p><p></p><p>In other words, the only way to calm a tantrum is to not amp it up. Like a small fire, it will burn out unless we fuel it. If you feel in danger...get help for yourself. It will be over the day after next.</p><p></p><p>On another note, you and I are the only ones awake this time of "night." LOL. I get ups so early yet I'm not tired at work. But don't ask me a profound question after 5pm. The best of my brainpower (whatever exists there) is in the morning. I am a definite morning person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 639305, member: 1550"] I have always been very, very fast on the keyboards :) It isn't your fault that this girl may end her friendship with your daughter. And, to be honest, she doesn't sound as if she is a very good influence on your vulnerable daughter anyway. You are doing nothing to end their friendship. You are asking B to leave due to her behavior under your roof. If difficult child blames you, again, my careful advice...at least it has worked well for me with a mouthy difficult child...is to not engage your difficult child much. Answer with "Uh huh" or "I see" or "I'm sorry you're hurting" or whatever. Or take that walk, or drive, or visit to a friend's house. In other words, the only way to calm a tantrum is to not amp it up. Like a small fire, it will burn out unless we fuel it. If you feel in danger...get help for yourself. It will be over the day after next. On another note, you and I are the only ones awake this time of "night." LOL. I get ups so early yet I'm not tired at work. But don't ask me a profound question after 5pm. The best of my brainpower (whatever exists there) is in the morning. I am a definite morning person. [/QUOTE]
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