Evilparents
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I am new here, I started by reading other parents posts and then I decided after losing all of our friends that I needed to find somewhere and someone that understands what it is like to have this awful chaotic life.
Our son is 12, ADHD was diagnosied when he was in Kindergarten, then last year as he worsen ODD, not Conduct Disorder and borderline Antisocial personality disorder.
He is my stepson, technically, but I have raised him since he was 4. His bio-mother has never been a big part of his life and refuses to be a constant stable parent. She has mental issues of her own. I realize that this could be part of our son's problem.
However we are doing everything we can, he lies steals, disrupts, disrespects, acts weird, is annoying, defiant, messy, etc.
He is destorying my marriage. We are worn out from the constant teacher's complaints, his stealing and disrespect towards family members, and participating in counseling that he refuses to speak to.
This behavior is now rubbing off on his 10 year old brother and we are in constant turmoil. Everyone says well just give them a good old fashion spanking. Oh this is not what I had imagined when I took on the role of mom,
Our son is 12, ADHD was diagnosied when he was in Kindergarten, then last year as he worsen ODD, not Conduct Disorder and borderline Antisocial personality disorder.
He is my stepson, technically, but I have raised him since he was 4. His bio-mother has never been a big part of his life and refuses to be a constant stable parent. She has mental issues of her own. I realize that this could be part of our son's problem.
However we are doing everything we can, he lies steals, disrupts, disrespects, acts weird, is annoying, defiant, messy, etc.
He is destorying my marriage. We are worn out from the constant teacher's complaints, his stealing and disrespect towards family members, and participating in counseling that he refuses to speak to.
This behavior is now rubbing off on his 10 year old brother and we are in constant turmoil. Everyone says well just give them a good old fashion spanking. Oh this is not what I had imagined when I took on the role of mom,