Hi I never post anything about my life before and by accident last night I came across this page and starting to read all the story that sound sad just like mine. My son is 16 years old and I don't know what's going on with him I think that we always did the best we could and we where always there for him to make the kind story short everything start on diciembre 31 when after he fail a drug test that we did at home we start searching he's room to see if he may had something in there what I found I never imagine he had a purse and surf board some jewelry box on that point I ask and he lie like he always does my husband told me we need to call the police and I knew this was the right move I was not going to cover him up if he was stealing police come by the house and after few hours of him telling them different stories he finally admitted that he when inside a house with his friends but he also said he was going to hurt him self so he was taking to a mental facility we pick him up the next morning he had 3 chargers after that he got in trouble with he's ex at school he got 2 more chargers and 1 more at school too a total of 6 chargers we hired two lawyers when to court and he plead guilty only on two chargers that was what the lawyer did for us so he was placed on probation and have to pay restitution back and he's working and he's paying this him self. But after all this we wanted to believe he will change and stop doing the wrong thing but we where so wrong, I had him going to therapies once a week and even do he just sit there and lie and he said everyone it's responsible but him mostly he just talk about me how bad of a person I'm he lies all the time when out and drink few times he will skeap classes come home pass the probation time we had call the police but if the probation don't want to do anything it's not much we can do. We had talk to him we had done everything we can think of and nothing works i just need help someone that has suffer all this and maybe that can tell me what I can do what I can try. Thank you