My difficult child was fighting with her dad, they were in the car driving to school, and things escalated, they were both yelling, she told him to shut up and he grabbed her neck and pushed her head down. She started crying and he stopped and apologized. He had a history of being verbally abusive which is why I divorced him but he has really stepped up lately, came to the hospital every day, has been so supportive of her, really calmed her down many times. She was responding and seemed to do really well when she spent time with him. Then this happened. She says she doesn't want to go over there any more. But I am so torn about that.I really need the break from her. It has been so stressful I cannot take much more, I really need that break those 2 nights a week. I just don't know what to do.