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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 706106" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>T Rene, you need to learn to set boundaries and stick to them. It took me two years of therapy to learn how to do that. Once I finally stopped enabling my daughter, she started to take care of herself.</p><p></p><p>You aren't doing him any favors buy letting him manipulate you. Tell him he has to leave. Find a list of shelters if necessary.</p><p></p><p>I don't say this lightly. I know how hard it is to do but if you don't do it this will go on for years. I remember reading a book called, "Don't let Your Kids Kill You: A Guide for Parents of Drug and alcohol Addicted Children" by Charles Rubin and the author talked about a woman whose 50 year-old-son was still living with her using drugs and stealing from her. Do you want that to be you someday?</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 706106, member: 1967"] T Rene, you need to learn to set boundaries and stick to them. It took me two years of therapy to learn how to do that. Once I finally stopped enabling my daughter, she started to take care of herself. You aren't doing him any favors buy letting him manipulate you. Tell him he has to leave. Find a list of shelters if necessary. I don't say this lightly. I know how hard it is to do but if you don't do it this will go on for years. I remember reading a book called, "Don't let Your Kids Kill You: A Guide for Parents of Drug and alcohol Addicted Children" by Charles Rubin and the author talked about a woman whose 50 year-old-son was still living with her using drugs and stealing from her. Do you want that to be you someday? ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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