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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 706120" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>All of us have been where you're at. Many of us longer. Please...dont assume. Kathy lived a nightmare. Drugs are always a nightmare.</p><p></p><p>If an adult child is dangerous to us or our other family, and stealing plus verbal abuse is dangerous if you put up with it, many chose to not allow adult kids in their home. And, on the other end of the spectrum, some let abusive adult kids live with them until they die, even if it never gets better, they gave up their own best golden years, and the adult is gobsmacked and helpless when he or she is finally alone. And the day wil2l come, sooner rather than later if they stress us sick.</p><p></p><p>It is up to you what you want to tolerate and what you won't. Nobody can make that decision for you. I chose not to let daughter come back and this was good for her. She straightened out and tells me she may not have if she had not been told to leave.</p><p></p><p>Hugs to you. Do what feels right</p><p> If it feels wrong, it's wrong. You should not feel conflicted or else something unsettled you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 706120, member: 1550"] All of us have been where you're at. Many of us longer. Please...dont assume. Kathy lived a nightmare. Drugs are always a nightmare. If an adult child is dangerous to us or our other family, and stealing plus verbal abuse is dangerous if you put up with it, many chose to not allow adult kids in their home. And, on the other end of the spectrum, some let abusive adult kids live with them until they die, even if it never gets better, they gave up their own best golden years, and the adult is gobsmacked and helpless when he or she is finally alone. And the day wil2l come, sooner rather than later if they stress us sick. It is up to you what you want to tolerate and what you won't. Nobody can make that decision for you. I chose not to let daughter come back and this was good for her. She straightened out and tells me she may not have if she had not been told to leave. Hugs to you. Do what feels right If it feels wrong, it's wrong. You should not feel conflicted or else something unsettled you. [/QUOTE]
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