therese005us
New Member
Hello all,
Guess you haven't missed me huh? Well, I was taken off to hospital in a hurry on Sunday morning and stayed overnight. Should have/could have stayed longer... but I HATE the public system and I had to come home so my DS could go to an interview this morning.
However, when I got him up and asked him to help with the outside chores (didn't feel like lugging bales of hay etc. in -2 degrees) so that I could make breakfast, he said it was too cold, and he didn't like doing chores in the early morning.
So, daughter and I did them and I made sure it was nearly too late to go to the interview... figured... well so sad, bad luck etc....
I got up earlier to do chores,, make breakfast (ugh! don't want porridge!! says he) and get him to the interview in plenty of time... and, hey? did I really feel like doing chores when I am feeling sick?
Discovered the cows were out and the neighbours are not happy, so I have to fix the fence now or else face a lot of trouble....
DS was not happy when I said I wasn't taking him to the interview because i was too sick, (sick more of his attitude) and I did let him know how I felt about his attitude of not helping me, and caring only that I was out of hospital so that he can be driven here and there....
Oh, half an hour after I get home, he asks me to take him out to the library.... for an hour or two (when I pointed out is was a public holiday, didn't he blush??) I found out later he was meeting someone to get some "stuff" pity his cover was blown!! but really, I just can't make it out and I am sick of his uncaring attitude... it's all about him. Yes, I know, I'm only ranting, I know it is part of his condition and I should be understanding, but really I only want to cry....
So, I am trying to pull wire out of this grass and make the fence more secure (inbewtwen vomiting quietly in the said grass) and he starts to help a little. Then says, it's too hard... so I say well, if you are in a job,a and it's too hard, you can't give up? He says, but I get paid for it. When I replied he gets paid here, he denies that, I point out, board, cleaning, food, etc. He rebutts with he pays board ($50 for his own caravan) my protest of the 'real world' goes unheeard... such as $try $200 for flat, then food, phone etc on top of that.....
Well, I have to close this now, I am so upset about it all. We were making progress and now I have probably blown it.. I thought we'd turned a corner, he has been caring and kind for at least 3 weeks now....
Guess you haven't missed me huh? Well, I was taken off to hospital in a hurry on Sunday morning and stayed overnight. Should have/could have stayed longer... but I HATE the public system and I had to come home so my DS could go to an interview this morning.
However, when I got him up and asked him to help with the outside chores (didn't feel like lugging bales of hay etc. in -2 degrees) so that I could make breakfast, he said it was too cold, and he didn't like doing chores in the early morning.
So, daughter and I did them and I made sure it was nearly too late to go to the interview... figured... well so sad, bad luck etc....
I got up earlier to do chores,, make breakfast (ugh! don't want porridge!! says he) and get him to the interview in plenty of time... and, hey? did I really feel like doing chores when I am feeling sick?
Discovered the cows were out and the neighbours are not happy, so I have to fix the fence now or else face a lot of trouble....
DS was not happy when I said I wasn't taking him to the interview because i was too sick, (sick more of his attitude) and I did let him know how I felt about his attitude of not helping me, and caring only that I was out of hospital so that he can be driven here and there....
Oh, half an hour after I get home, he asks me to take him out to the library.... for an hour or two (when I pointed out is was a public holiday, didn't he blush??) I found out later he was meeting someone to get some "stuff" pity his cover was blown!! but really, I just can't make it out and I am sick of his uncaring attitude... it's all about him. Yes, I know, I'm only ranting, I know it is part of his condition and I should be understanding, but really I only want to cry....
So, I am trying to pull wire out of this grass and make the fence more secure (inbewtwen vomiting quietly in the said grass) and he starts to help a little. Then says, it's too hard... so I say well, if you are in a job,a and it's too hard, you can't give up? He says, but I get paid for it. When I replied he gets paid here, he denies that, I point out, board, cleaning, food, etc. He rebutts with he pays board ($50 for his own caravan) my protest of the 'real world' goes unheeard... such as $try $200 for flat, then food, phone etc on top of that.....
Well, I have to close this now, I am so upset about it all. We were making progress and now I have probably blown it.. I thought we'd turned a corner, he has been caring and kind for at least 3 weeks now....