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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 72727" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>That is the most important thing I am going to learn, is that I can rebuild myself. She told me many times that I cannot fix my husband, it's not my job. He is the only one that can do that and he doesn't think he has anything to fix. The only one I can fix is myself and that is what I need to concentrate on. </p><p></p><p>When I once again started taking responsibility for our marital problems because I'm not "affectionate enough", she once again reminded me that my not being affectionate enough did not cause our marital problems. The fact that he makes his personal happines everyone elses responsibility but his own and can't see this, is what caused our marital problems. </p><p></p><p>I'm always so busy trying to fix everyone else, I guess I didn't realize how broken I actually was.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 72727, member: 2442"] That is the most important thing I am going to learn, is that I can rebuild myself. She told me many times that I cannot fix my husband, it's not my job. He is the only one that can do that and he doesn't think he has anything to fix. The only one I can fix is myself and that is what I need to concentrate on. When I once again started taking responsibility for our marital problems because I'm not "affectionate enough", she once again reminded me that my not being affectionate enough did not cause our marital problems. The fact that he makes his personal happines everyone elses responsibility but his own and can't see this, is what caused our marital problems. I'm always so busy trying to fix everyone else, I guess I didn't realize how broken I actually was. [/QUOTE]
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