I feel so weak right now, I had a melt down at work today and felt like a total goof!! But I really cant handle this thing with my daughter. Whenever I get back into her life it only lasts about 2 years and we are at it again. Its like each time she gets back in my life she trys really hard to butter me up and be nice so i will do things for her, which like a fool I do because each time I think there is hope, but when she cant get what she wants....this time it is moving in with me then she goes back to her mean personality and starts accusing me of not ever being there for her emotionally...this time she has given me 2 years to get close to my grandson, so now she says I am closer to my new grandson then hers!! She told me I have never been there for her in 39 years. She will be 40 in feb. I dont know how to get close to her because every time i think its possible it blows up in my face! in the last 2 years I have bought them groceries, clothes, shoes, and have provided everything for my grandson, anything he has ever needed i have provided.And now because I refuse to let her move in she is really throwing daggers at me !! She had a good childhood, we made sure she was in everything and we provided all her needs. I just cant believe that none of that counts. She just wants rescued so she can sit at my house and do nothing with her life....I really couldn't handle it!!